Goodbye to all the boo-hoos
It has been
quite a while since my last relationship. I stopped long ago counting how long
it has been. I’ve been through all the
bitterness and angst of the break-up and I’ve healed. I’m past all the boo-hoos
and the sleepless nights.
I’ve been in a
relationship for so long and I guess it made me fear the loneliness of being
“unhooked.” I was so caught up with the thought that I was “alone” not
realizing that I turned completely bitter, pathetic, and even desperate.
The change I owe
so much to my friends. They stood by me all the way. They made me realize I’ll
never be alone. I’ve got friends in close proximity and some miles and others
even oceans away but near or far, they were always with me. Thanks to them, I’m
back to living life to the fullest.
“CARPE
DIEM!” Seize the day… I live life one day at a time once more, appreciating
whatever crosses my way and grabbing whatever opportunity that drops by. Same
thing goes with relationships. I’m not in any commitment right now. I’m in no
big hurry to jump into another one. I’ve contented myself going out meeting new
people, going on friendly dates, and sometimes on little more than friendly
ones.
We
go through life being with different people. We enter relationships and commitments
with so many “wrong ones” but that should not stop us. One day the “right one”
will come knocking at our doors and thanks to all those “wrong ones,” we have
become (hopefully) a better person for our “right one.” So, I say this, just
enjoy your time with all the “wrong ones!” Another thought, who knows, maybe
the “wrong one” would even end up to be the “right one.”
